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Struggling
with relationship issues is normal and human. Given how important
we all feel relationships are, of course we want them to be the
best. The art of building a satisfying relationship is something
you can learn. It does not come automatically out of the blue. |
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YOU ARE NOT ALONE; THERE ARE LOTS OF OPTIONS!
Our
speciality is helping people deepen and sustain their most important
relationships. In addition to our marriage
counseling intensive retreats we are both in private practice and work individually
and together with couples and individuals all over the country – supporting
them to increase connection, team work, and understanding in
their partnerships.
We often work on the phone, and people who live in our area (southern
Colorado) come to our offices for face to face appointments. |
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MANY
PEOPLE SUCCESSFULLY WORK THROUGH THEIR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES; We
have supported hundreds of couples and individuals to transform:
• SEX
AND INTIMACY STRUGGLES
• MID-LIFE CRISES
• INFIDELITY
• CONFLICT REPAIR
• INCREASING COMMUNICATION & UNDERSTANDING
• SEPARATION AND DIVORCE
• SHARED PARENTING
• PARENTING CRISES
• PREPARATION FOR MARRIAGE
• SINGLES LOOKING FOR LOVE
• WORKPLACE CONFLICTS
Our
approach is a unique combination of educating you about relationship
skills and behaviors, helping you practice those skills, and
facilitating you to grow yourself to become the partner/person
you would like to be in all your relationships. We are each trained
in coaching and psychotherapy modalities so we combine our personal
experience in relationship, as well as our professional training.
(biographies and certifications). |
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STORIES
WE CAN SHARE |
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Infidelity.
Recovering from an affair
is one of the most profound opportunities for creating a
conscious relationship. It takes daily commitment and usually
the support of a skilled professional to help you heal painful
reactions and recover from old patterns. |
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John
had an affair. Samantha was in such a rage that she
was about to kick him out of the house. But, they had
two small children and she knew that if he left, there
would be no chance of saving the marriage. John didn’t
want to destroy their family, but he didn’t know
how to make amends, and he didn’t understand
why he had the affair. Samantha insisted that he get
some help and only then would she agree to couples
therapy.
John
and Samantha each did some individual phone sessions
with Kate and after about three months, they began
going through the stages of recovering from the affair.
They participated in our marriage counseling intensive
retreat and are currently finding new meaning, new
strength, and healing in their marriage. It has not
been easy. It has taken time, but they are together
and stronger than ever.
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Separation
and divorce. Ending
a relationship can be one of the most painful times of life.
Especially when children are involved, working to avoid an estranged
family can have long term healthy benefits for everyone involved.
Whether you need mediation, individual support, or relationship
counseling, we can help. |
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When
Mary first started working with Joel, she was exhausted by
the seesawing moves of separation from and reconciliation with
her possessive husband. She worried about how her sensitive
eight-year-old daughter would weather the storms. Joel helped
her first to clarify her boundaries and then to get strong
enough to take a stand. She didn’t have to face her fears
alone. Today Mary lives on her own with her daughter and has
a far healthier relationship with her ex-husband. |
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Employment
Conflict. Stressful
relationships at work can tarnish the shiniest of silver
linings. When you and your manager, subordinate, or partner
have disagreements, it not only corrodes your life, it
also negatively impacts the entire workplace. |
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Charlie
is a mild-mannered guy. His bombastic boss used to terrify
him with unreasonable requests, insensitive comments, and
regular tirades. Charlie was embarrassed, but he took it.
He didnt know what else to do.
His work with Joel helped him to discover his own needs and learn how to stand
his ground. Instead of being upset, Charlies manager has referred several
other employees to Joel. |
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EMAIL
OR CALL US; WE WILL BE HAPPY TO CHAT WITH YOU BY PHONE ABOUT
YOUR NEEDS AND HOW WE CAN HELP.
Joel@Consciousrelationships.com or 970-259-7585
Kate@ConsciousRelationships.com or 970-259-3424 |
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