Our approach is
a unique combination of educating you about relationship skills and
behaviors, helping you practice those skills, and facilitating you
to grow yourself to become the person you want to be in all
your relationships. We are each trained in coaching and psychotherapy
modalities so we combine our personal experience in relationship,
as well as our professional training.
STORIES WE CAN SHARE
Infidelity. Recovering from an affair is one of the most profound
opportunities for creating a conscious relationship. It takes daily
commitment and usually the support of a skilled professional to help
you heal painful reactions and recover from old patterns.
John had an affair. Samantha was in such a rage that
she was about to kick him out of the house. But, they had two small
children and she knew that if he left, there would be no chance of
saving the marriage. John didn't want to destroy their family, but
he didn't know how to make amends, and he didn't understand why he
had the affair. Samantha insisted that he get some help and only
then would she agree to couples therapy.
John and Samantha each did some individual phone sessions with Kate
and after about three months, they began going through the stages
of recovering from the affair. They participated in our marriage
counseling intensive retreat and are currently finding new meaning,
new strength, and healing in their marriage. It has not been easy.
It has taken time, but they are together and stronger than ever.
Separation and divorce. Ending a relationship can be one of the
most painful times of life. Especially when children are involved,
working to avoid an estranged family can have long term healthy benefits
for everyone involved. Whether you need mediation, individual support,
or relationship counseling, we can help.
When Mary first started working with Joel, she was exhausted by the
seesawing moves of separation from and reconciliation with her possessive
husband. She worried about how her sensitive eight-year-old daughter
would weather the storms. Joel helped her first to clarify her boundaries
and then to get strong enough to take a stand. She didn't have to
face her fears alone. Today Mary lives on her own with her daughter
and has a far healthier relationship with her ex-husband.
Call (970)
259-3424 or email
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