Sexual Intimacy

A Unique “Road Map” For Couples To Re-Capture Fulfillment Through Sexual Intimacy

Your quest for healthy sexual relating is normal; you may be among the many couples that suffer with everything from being too busy, to having the physiological challenges that go with aging, stress or illness. Our relationship workshops (specifically, Sex Pleasure and Intimacy) and our personalized private couples retreats, can help you find pleasure, satisfaction and passion again.

Sexual Expression Changes Over Time

Most of us remember a time when sexual intimacy was a joy. It was not something we had to work at. We were alive, awakened to the energy of communicating through our bodies; we were experimental, easily aroused, and we didn’t worry about whether we were getting enough, how we looked, or whether we were “doing it right.” In spite of all the media attention, self help books, better sex videos and our 21sth century sexual freedoms, healthy sexuality within a fulfilled relationship still seems to be mysterious and confusing.

As you grow and mature as a couple your sexual expression should move from the excitement of your early years, to comfort, ease, clear communication about desires, and even a sense of humor. Eroticism is expressed through each of your personal experiences of pleasure in your body. Your intimate connection leads the way, not necessarily always, penetration or orgasm.

Problems That Couples Have Addressed In Our Private Relationship Retreats


• Desire differences – often expressed, as “when I’m hot you’re not”.
• Physiological changes – Erectile Dysfunction, painful intercourse, tiredness, Body image issues, the aftermath of childbirth.
• Past sexual abuse
• Infidelity
• Stress of child rearing, career changes, mid-life crises, aging parents
• Emotional stressors- depression, power issues, anger, boredom, relationship problems

How We Work With Couples Who Want To Improve, Deepen, Or Rekindle Their Sex Lives

Intimacy has to do with vulnerable self-disclosure. How open are you with your partner? How easy is it to reveal your sexual needs and desires? Many of us feel afraid to be vulnerable because we don’t have a good track record of creating emotional safety in our relationships. Everyone has some level of shame when it comes to exposing our deepest inner self.

Over 30 years of working with couples we have dedicated ourselves to creating an approach to intimacy, lovemaking, and sensual expression, which each person can easily understand and practice in and outside the bedroom. These apply to all partners no matter what stage of your life cycle, no matter how old you are.

Intimacy has to do with vulnerable self-disclosure. How open are you with your partner? How easy is it to reveal your needs and desires, especially sexual? Many of us feel afraid to be vulnerable because we don’t have a good track record of creating emotional safety in our relationships. Everyone has some level of shame when it comes to exposing our deepest inner self.

Over 30 years of working with couples we have dedicated ourselves to creating an approach to intimacy, lovemaking, and sensual expression, which each person can easily understand and practice in and outside the bedroom. These apply to all partners no matter what stage of your life cycle, no matter how old you are.

1. Become an INTIMATE TEAM: A relationship (and especially sex) is a team sport; you win or lose together.
2. Practice non-demand pleasuring TOUCH in and outside the bedroom. Touching and sensuality is the core of sexual response. Letting go of goals and agendas creates space for more creativity, more pleasure, and more teamwork.
3. TALK to each other: learn to solve problems, ask for what you need and, express what pleases you.
4. Understand that LIFE IS FOREPLAY: Everything you do together can contribute to passion, aliveness and satisfaction!
5. PRESENCE: Develop the skill of being present moment by moment to yourself and to your partner. Learn to “track” your own body, mind and emotions as well as your partner’s. Slow down. Experience moment-by-moment pleasure.

We will design a specific retreat based on your needs, and where you are in the life cycle of your relationship. We will listen carefully to the issues, which are relevant to your particular sexual relationship. Our goal will be to help you relax, learn about yourselves and find your own personal style of creating sexual pleasure and intimate relating. We’ll support you to relax your bodies, finding the sensual expression and the fun that inherently exists in all of us as human beings and lovers. We will also give you tools and time to experiment for yourself and then talk honestly with each other.

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