Relationship & Marriage Counseling

When someone deeply listens to you
it is like holding out a dented cup you’ve had since childhood and watching it fill up with cold, fresh water.
When it balances on the top of the brim, you are understood. When it overflows and touches your skin, you are loved…
When someone deeply listens to you
your bare feet are on the earth
and a beloved land that seemed distant,
is now at home within you

John Fox


Couple in Marriage Counseling


You want:

Of course you do!


Married Couple

Your relationship is precious. Amidst the “dust of daily living” a strong partnership makes you braver, kinder, more compassionate, AND helps you live longer by boosting your immune system!

But you struggle. You hurt each other. You forget to make up. Your heart aches; you feel angry but you say nothing. You don’t want to be vulnerable. Yet you crave to let go and admit your needs. Of course you do. You’re human.

Conflict is normal. You are two different people. What did you think? That it was supposed to be “nice” all the time?
Even healthy couples have problems. It’s a normal part of being in relationship. We can help you with our special approach to individual relationship counseling and couples counseling.

Perhaps you are struggling with sexual issues? Maybe you want better couples communication, more passion, joy and intimacy? Often, a long-term partnership starts to feel “old”, “boring”, and “routine”. We wake up one day and wonder where the romance went and what happened to the person “I fell in love with” way back when.

Couple Kissing

Our specialty is helping people in relationship become the healthy individuals and couples they have always wanted to be. In addition to our private marriage counseling retreats, we are both in private practice, working separately and together, with couples and individuals all over the world—supporting them to increase connection, deepen their communication, heal from extramarital affairs, resolve sexual issues, and, often, for new couples, begin life together with skill, and understanding about how a good relationship really works.

Our counseling practices are now primarily on the phone or by Skype; people who live in our area (southern Colorado) come to our offices for face-to-face appointments.

Our relationship counseling and couples counseling approach is a unique combination of educating you about communication skills and behaviors, helping you practice those skills, and facilitating you to grow yourself to become the partner/person you would like to be in all your relationships. We are each trained in coaching and psychotherapy modalities as well as specific couples counseling techniques, so we combine our personal experience in relationship, as well as our professional training. (See ABOUT US for biographies and certifications)

Joel and Kate
Katrina and Joel

Please reach out. We are real people just like you. We have 35 years of marriage under our belts, and have been around the block a few times. Now we’re older, wiser, mellower, and we have worked with individuals and couples, helping with relationship satisfaction for over 40 years. We can probably help you!

Call (970) 259-3424 or email us today, we’d love to help.

Call or Email us now:
Katrina: 970 259 3424
Joel: 970 259 7585

Mission Statement

  • Counseling

    Our long-distance relationship counseling/coaching is a unique blend of education, skill building, and facilitating you to grow into the partner/person you would like to be in your relationships.

  • Intensives

    Our private 3-day retreats serve one couple at time. Some of the top priorities that we address are: breaking through unresolved issues, extra-marital affairs, deepening communication, increasing sex and intimacy.

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