We are fortunate to work with many kind and wonderful people. We appreciate hearing back from them about the lasting impact our work together has had on their lives. Here are a few of their sharings:
Amazing experience! Katrina and Joel are kind, warm, and incredibly skilled at what they do. They were able to cut through all of the confusion and bad feelings between us and help us both understand, for the first time what the real problems were and most importantly, where they were rooted.
This kind of understanding was incredibly powerful and helped us to be able to empathize with each other and gave us the energy to want to change our individual behaviors that were keeping us stuck.
They also taught us the tools necessary to move these insights from merely insights to real change in our relationship.
I would wholeheartedly recommend Katrina and Joel to any couple in trouble or even simply seeking to make their relationship stronger. I feel blessed to have been referred to them, and am happy for anyone lucky enough to find their way to these gifted therapists.
A & N
It’s hard to find the right words to thank you for your work. The time we spent with you was enlightening and strengthening. You are so gentle, genuine, humorous and skillful. You guided us as well as taught us the theory behind our reactions, sharing new skills for safely communicating, then insightfully coaching and supporting us while we practiced those new skills. You helped us see that even the smallest interaction matters.
You created an intensive that was specific to our needs, not a standard, fixed format. I was amazed at how incredibly engaged you both were throughout our four hour sessions. You adapted the sessions as you learned more about our dynamics. You asked us if we felt our goals and needs were being addressed, then used our feedback to continue creating a profoundly meaningful experience. With your guidance and support, we were able to look more deeply at our individual feelings, needs and patterns. The skills you taught helped us relax our defenses as we shared and listened, paving the way for renewed connection.
The beautiful view of the mountains, the comfort and beauty of your home, and the warmth of your presence facilitated opening, connection and ease, even while doing challenging work. You are a gifted team. Thank you for all you did for our relationship.
Cindy & John
“Thank you thank you, for the agreement-making process, but most of all the time we spent with you. It stuck. We are in the sweetest, most loving, most amazing place we have been in years if ever.
I am so grateful to you and Joel.”
L.C., Corvallis, OR
“How do you properly endorse a couple that has the ability to save a marriage, mend a family, and give you tools that change how you see the world? Words could never express the level of appreciation and admiration that we have for this couple who share their insights and years of experience for making relationships work.
We still find it hard to believe that, as a couple with troubles since the beginning and on the verge of divorce, we could come from an intensive session so deeply connected in love and understanding. And yet, it is so very true. It has been a year since our first session with the Feldman’s and our marriage has been completely transformed and continues to be better than all the years past. We were able to celebrate our 15th Wedding Anniversary thanks to the Feldman’s.”
M & A, Los Angeles, CA
“Dear Joel and Katrina,
We wanted to take a moment to reach out and thank you for the amazingly powerful and intimately effective weekend retreat. Our most sincere thanks for opening up a new world of communicating, feeling, understanding, and loving each other. It was beyond our expectations, and as I said in our session, makes us both very hopeful and optimistic for our future together. We hit a very dark place and one that neither of us had experience in navigating. You two became our beacons and truly helped guide us to seek the right path. We are forever grateful for this introduction to what can be next.”
L and D
“I’ve seen lots of therapists throughout my life, and these 2 are the best. I was stunned at the level of understanding I felt from both of them from the first minute. I was knocked out by their ability to connect dots that I couldn’t even see -and to push us gently when appropriate and give a kick in the pants at other times. Unlike any other therapy I’ve experienced, well worth the investment, and definitely, no expiration date on the lessons learned and tools gained.”
L.C., Corvalis, OR
“What you offered us probably did more than a year or two or ten of counseling could have done.”
K & M
“I hope you get our vibes of gratitude all the time. The morning ritual that we created with you has meant so much to both of us. I am finally beginning to believe that my husband really does love me and wants to be with me forever. Pretty safe, secure, and yummy! The work we did with you has strengthened our relationship and laid a thicker foundation of love, trust, and appreciation of one another to such an extent that together, the only thing we need to know as a couple is: What fabulous life experience do we want to create together next?
A thousand thanks for being our compass and pointing us in the right direction!”
J & H, NY, NY
“Bruce and I had an amazing experience with you and Joel. We feel so hopeful and empowered for the future of our relationship. Thanks for making a safe space for us!!!!! We love knowing we can have more access to you if needed.”
“I cannot express enough how grateful I am for the gifts you and Joel gave me. You two have shown me that I really can be the person I want to be and that by being who I really am, I will receive what I need. You’ve helped me recognize that I am blessed with having an absolutely wonderful person to share this journey with. I told her last night that I am not a lucky man, I am the luckiest man to have her by my side.”
Call or Email us now:
Katrina: 970 259 3424
Joel: 970 259 7585
Our long-distance relationship counseling/coaching is a unique blend of education, skill building, and facilitating you to grow into the partner/person you would like to be in your relationships.
Our private 3-day retreats serve one couple at time. Some of the top priorities that we address are: breaking through unresolved issues, extra-marital affairs, deepening communication, increasing sex and intimacy.