Your Relationship Tree

Your relationship is like a beautiful fruit tree

When it is happy and healthy, delicious fruits ripen to give you pleasure

People look longingly upon this amazing tree

Everyone would love to have one just like it.


Many people, especially those who haven’t tried to grow one

Think it must be pretty easy to do

Stick it in the ground, water every now and again and

Within no time they’ll be relishing the fruits it provides them.


Sometimes, this might be the case

Most times, it is merely the dream of those that

Haven’t put in the endless labor to nurture and grow

Something so precious, fragile and life-giving.


This tree is forever under assault from elements

Which are mostly out of your control

Just managing a life together, a family or business

Can deplete your reserves of patience and understanding.


Making time to feed, water and prune is the easy part

Extreme stressors like insects and disease are always a possibility

Taking care of our own needs sometimes is hard enough

But taking care of our relationship often is the first to go.


What does it take for a relationship tree to bear sweet fruit?

Tending to the heartfelt needs of one another, listening first:

Empathy and compassion for both of us

Simple connections, regular pleasure and shared fun are a must.


Learning how to forgive the missteps and hurts that we cause one another

Working together with kindness and goodwill to change what needs changing

Remembering often all of the goodness and beauty in each other

Opening our heart to receive the love and best intentions of our beloved.


You can live contentedly under the shade of such a magical tree

It can provide you with the loving nourishment you desire

With skill, together, over time and sometimes with the help of a master gardener

You can definitely grow a monumental testimony to your love in action.



  • Counseling

    Our long-distance relationship counseling/coaching is a unique blend of education, skill building, and facilitating you to grow into the partner/person you would like to be in your relationships.

  • Intensives

    Our private 3-day retreats serve one couple at time. Some of the top priorities that we address are: breaking through unresolved issues, extra-marital affairs, deepening communication, increasing sex and intimacy.